Wednesday, April 11, 2018
Borrowed Heartbits: Roald Dahl
Perhaps my own abundant bookshelves growing up have shaped my mama heart to fill our kids' lives with books...and this sentiment by Roald Dahl is an obvious one to me:
"If you are going to get anywhere in life you have to read a lot of books."
Around here, I struggle with screen time with my kids...um, if you follow me on social media, I am sure that is just as obvious as this quote. It seems, my children's time is divided between what they need to get done--school, schoolwork, and meals, and then screen time.
No slender pieces of the pie showing a slew of hobbies, pastimes. Just obligation and screen time.
The practical me knows that it is not entirely true. Thank you, Youth Sports, for squeezing as many minutes out of my overcrowded schedule as you can. But, THANK YOU, Youth Sports, for giving my kids time away from their screens.
Seriously, my heart shudders at the thought of what life will look like from these blue-faced sessions of cyber-living a decade from now.
And that is why, my children will tell you,
"My mom is all crazy 'bout reading. Like, real paper books. Like, away from my screen. Wha'???"
When I get fed up with their mental drainage into the world of Minecraft and Fortnite and whatever
"Here's a chore..."
"Get a book..."
And while they will declare their chores are done, there is always a book unread around here.
Lots of books.
The picture above shows a glimpse at the shelves in my daughter's room, only because it is the neatest display at the moment...we have books coming out our ears. And, fortunately, my children READ.
A long time ago, when chapter book assignments came home, my kids were allowed to independent read at bedtime. And now, it's a deeply rooted habit--an AMAZING excuse to prolong sleep for them...but to soothe my anxiety away that they are going nowhere with a screen attached to their palm.
And, they are my children--forever night owls...forever bucking the idea that sleep is a good thing. And while I will reprimand them at 10 pm...11 pm...for staying up with a book glued to their face, my mama heart leaps.
Books. The doorways to great ideas, imagination, and knowledge. There might be fabricated digital lands that maneuver them to someone else's imagination by day, but at night, they get to plunge into a story and come up with their own thoughts and ideas.
I rest in those moments when I know, my children are going somewhere.